This week has been one of those when I have been kind of swept away by life. I have kept up my practice but it’s definitely been more in the background this week. I’ve noticed myself getting stressed and thinking about all the things that have to be done. Getting swept away by the stream of thoughts, instead of remembering to sit back and observe. The important thing is that eventually I managed to recognise that I was swept away and take a step back and observe even if it’s just for a few seconds means that my practice is still having an affect even when it feels like I’m not paying it enough attention.
In previous times, a week like this might have been a reason for me to give up and stop practice for a while. Now I can recognise that I’m still doing my best. Instead of putting pressure on my practice be perfect I can accept that this week might not have been amazin, but I’m still doing it so it still counts.
On Friday I had no energy after a busy week, but initially I still wanted to do all the things that I hadn’t had time to do earlier in the week. This meant that I was not doing anything productive, but I wasn’t resting properly either because I was getting worried about all the things that I wanted to do but didn’t have the energy to do. Eventually I gave up the idea of doing anything that day so that I could rest properly, accepting what was there instead of fighting against it.
I think there are two things that I will take away from this experience, the first is a more positive one: that is I managed to listen to my body when it was telling me that I needed to rest. Hopefully in future I will do this without spending the extra time fighting against it. I know that historically I’ve spent a lot of time resisting what my body is telling me so it is going to be a process of listening and accepting what my body is telling me.
The second thing that I have recognised is the idea of rest being synonymous with not doing anything and this is an idea that I need to change. Rather than seeing rest as not doing anything productive and therefore something to be avoided, I need to recognise that rest is an important part of life and therefore a valid way of spending time. Especially as I know getting enough rest can be one of the ways that I make sure that I stay healthy which means it’s even more important right now.